When I was a kid, I was shy.
In middle school I discovered I liked attention, 
specifically from boys so I started seeking it. But at this, I was not secure in myself. 
When I arrived in high school I sought my validation from relationships. 
And I liked the attention. I had a fling of ridiculous boyfriends of many different types.
 But After a while, I realized something about myself
I was becoming a Chameleon. 
I was adjusting myself to fit in with the people around me.
Right out of high school, I got married at 19.
But I was really disappointed to realize that getting married didn’t solve all my internal problems like I thought it would.
Problems like: 
- The need for validation, 
- Changing myself to fit in with others, 
- Being insecure with myself. 
When I saw myself through that mirror I knew, I had a lot of personal work to do. 
That was when I started looking into confidence for myself. 
From that point on I dove headfirst into confidence to experiment and heal myself. 
After listening to thousands of podcasts, reading hundreds of books, watching every youtube video i could find. Then testing what I’ve been learning on myself and forcing my friends to try too. 
After 4 years of researching and testing everything about confidence. I figured out what it takes to finally feel confident and that’s what I want to share with you.