I feel like some people are born with confidence and I’m just not one of them.
If you feel like you were not born with confidence, I need you to understand that that is a lie. Confidence is not something that some people are born with and born without. Confidence is a skill that can be learned.
Just like speaking english. When you were a baby you didn’t know very much english. But as you got older you learned and improved. Just like learning a language you must learn how to build and create confidence in your own life.
You don’t believe that you can be confident.
If they don’t believe that they can be confident then they were going to forever be stuck in this rut. They are going to go their entire life never fully reaching for everything they would or could become.
The ideas that they have to write a book, start a blog, create a business will never come to life. This will not only hurt them, but it will also hurt other people who could have benefited from their idea.
Confident people are arrogant.
This belief is limiting because they have a negative association of what confidence is. So whenever they meet someone their judgements will be guarded. Instead of making friendships with powerful mentors, they would become suspicious.
It would be like labeling money as bad.
Or avocados too fatty. Avocados have healthy fat and they are great for us to eat. By looking at confidence as if it is a bad thing they are limiting themselves from ever receiving the benefits in the future.