When I was a kid, I was shy.
In middle school I discovered I liked attention,
specifically from boys so I started seeking it. But at this, I was not secure in myself.
When I arrived in high school I sought my validation from relationships.
And I liked the attention. I had a fling of ridiculous boyfriends of many different types.
But After a while, I realized something about myself
I was becoming a Chameleon.
I was adjusting myself to fit in with the people around me.
Right out of high school, I got married at 19.
But I was really disappointed to realize that getting married didn’t solve all my internal problems like I thought it would.
Problems like:
- The need for validation,
- Changing myself to fit in with others,
- Being insecure with myself.
When I saw myself through that mirror I knew, I had a lot of personal work to do.
That was when I started looking into confidence for myself.
From that point on I dove headfirst into confidence to experiment and heal myself.
After listening to thousands of podcasts, reading hundreds of books, watching every youtube video i could find. Then testing what I’ve been learning on myself and forcing my friends to try too.
After 4 years of researching and testing everything about confidence. I figured out what it takes to finally feel confident and that’s what I want to share with you.